Today’s post is kind of a cop-out. Kind of. I loved how eloquently she put this. I was just slightly ahead of the curve & voted in the 2008 election. But that was my first. I think this may resonate with a lot of people out there – so I just wanted to share…
I hope this will help you feel the urgency to vote in this election. ** Erin
{Re-Blogged From jonesdesigncompany}
a confession I’d rather not confess – but I will anyway
Confession:
I have never voted in a presidential election.
There. I said it.
Now before you get all judgy on me, continue on.
This is not a proud piece of information to share. I’m actually quite embarrassed and ashamed. While I’ve been eligible to vote for the past four elections, I have not.
First, let me tell you why.
1. I find politics to be over-my-head. I’m sure if I put any amount of time into researching policies, watching the news, visiting political websites and reading current event publications, I would feel differently {or would I?!}. Instead, I spend my time researching recipes, watching Disney Jr., visiting design websites and reading novels. Politics are just not part of my daily routine and for the most part, I don’t wish they were.
2. I find politicians hard to trust. I don’t know, maybe it’s all those terrible attack ads or maybe the fact that we all talk much bigger than we can walk, but politicians don’t come off as genuine and they rarely seem to keep their promises. Which makes it hard to really get behind anyone.
3. Since I don’t have a whole lot of information to go off of, and I don’t particularly feel strongly for any one candidate, I figure I should leave the voting up to the more-informed.
{I can hear all of you political-types groaning at your screen right now. Especially my cousin. And my husband.}
And so, for the past four elections, I have. I’ve left the voting up to the more-informed.

This time around I’ve felt convicted. Very convicted.
How dare I take this freedom for granted?
How many women, both before our time and throughout the modern world, would give anything for the opportunity to vote?
Yet here I am, tossing my ballot into the recycle bin because I don’t take this seriously. I don’t think my vote counts. I don’t care.
That’s not right and I know better.
Several weeks ago I shared these thoughts with some girlfriends, who surprisingly did not throw rocks at me, but instead shared similar sentiments. All are my age {30′s} with similar demographics {married/children/home owners/college graduates} and each of us do not value our voting privileges – or so it would seem because very few had actually voted in any of the previous four elections.
Which got me thinking … how many of you are in the same boat?
How many women out there {smart, capable women} do not vote each election because we feel uninformed and therefore like our vote is useless?
I may be completely off-base, but I’m guessing quite a few. Our lives are full, our passions lie outside the political arena, we make choices to read Real Simple over The Economist and watch Dancing with the Stars over the Presidential Debate. It all sounds like chatter that our ears and minds can’t comprehend anyway, so we tune out. “Let the more informed make the decisions”, we say. And if not outright, we say it by our actions.
But we should not and we can not.
We have to vote.
Even though it’s over-our-heads.
Even though the candidates have flaws.
Even though our one vote may not make the difference in the outcome, collectively our votes do matter.
We really have to vote.
So here I am, confessing to you that I’ve taken this voting privilege for granted all my life. I am one of those {almost a quarter of the American population, by the way} who deliberately choose not to vote.
But this election is different. I’m growing up, being responsible, taking the freedom I have seriously and voting.
Won’t you join me?

I am 73 years old and have never missed voting in an election. I had a broken foot in 2010 and hobbled to the voting booth in a cast. So, please vote. It is a precious right that many other people do not have. As far as all the campaign rhetoric I pretty much ignore it. I don’t pay a lot of attention to what the candidates say….I look at what they have done. Actions speak much louder than words. I do my own homework on issues I am interested in. If all else fails, vote what your own head & heart tells you to. See you at the polls on Tuesday. This is a really important one. Wilma
Well said. And I love Wilma’s approach. Great advice.
You know what they say, “If you don’t vote you can’t complain.” These days there is way too much to complain about so I had to vote – early, just to be sure! Personally I believe this may be the most important election for awhile because I don’t feel our “free” country can afford 4 more like the last 4. Well, now you’ve discovered who I voted for. It is our civic duty to cast our vote, so please, make it a MUST on your list of things to do today, AND MAY GOD BLESS AMERICA!
A brave post. I admire your honesty and it was a thought provoking read.